Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Grief

CREDO

I believe grief is a process that involves a lot of time, energy and determination. I won't "get over it" in a hurry, so don't rush me!

I believe grief is intensely personal. This is my grief. Don't tell me how I should be doing it. Don't tell me what's right or what's wrong. I'm doing it my way, in my time.

I believe grief is affecting me in many ways. I am being affected spiritually, physically, emtionally, socially and mentally. If I'm not acting like my old self, it's because I'm not my old self and some days I don't even understand myself.

I believe I will be affected in some way by this loss the rest of my life. As I get older, I will have new insights into what this death means to me. My loved one will continue to be part of my life and influence me until the day I die.

I believe I am being changed by this process. I see life differently. Some things that were once important to me aren't any more. Some things I used to pay little or no attention to are now important.

I think a new me is emerging, so don't be surprised - and don't stand in the way.

John Kennedy Saynor

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

I send you love and support.
Thank you for loving Tony.
He is a great soul.
Adam
Helloruho@yahoo.comaciedn

Found art blog said...

Amen to that. We're all here for you..... hugs.

the 4 D's said...

I will say this , from being around Death and having Death in my family. No matter what anyone tells you, it will never be the same . the loss of a loved one ,you will do greif in your own way and in time, it will seem to get better but you will always have a moments of sadness.but you will also have the joy to remember and cry and laugh as time goes by .

cortney said...

Great quote, I lost my mom in August after helping her for 2 months battle cancer, and those words describe my everyday, thanks for posting. Cortney pache

Anonymous said...

Time does heal just a bit. I'm so sorry that your Tony is gone.